Tantra is for Anyone, and Everyone. our Frequently Asked Questions.
- Tantra & Sexuality
Alegraluz Massages F.A.Q
What happens during a Tantric massage session?
During a Tantric Massage session you receive a massage that doesn’t exclude or focus on any body part. You are coached into breathing properly during the duration of the massage. You can either go the bliss road or the orgasmic road. We discourage both as they are just stepping stones.
We aim at assisting you to take charge of your sexual energy, to combine it with your life force (who you really are) and to live life to the fullest.
Are therapists naked during a Tantric massage?
Yes. Therapists are naked during the massage, but touching the therapist is discouraged as our intention is for you to relax and to receive the massage.
Does the massage end with ejaculation?
No, the massage doesn’t end with ejaculation, You are therefore asked not to ejaculate or use a vibrator 24 hours before, during or 24 hours after a session with an Alegraluz Tantra therapist.
How do I contact therapists?
Therapists can only be contacted by writing an email through the contact page of our website.
Are you in all the locations as listed on your website?
Alegraluz trained therapists or associate therapists visit most of the locations mentioned on our website, at times.
How shall I prepare myself for a Tantric massage?
The ultimate preparation is to be free from expectations. Not to have a set idea in the mind as the mind can never conceive the depths of our own being. Go for a walk before and after your session. Take your time, it might be one of the best investments in your life.
Does the Alegraluz Tantric Massage take place on a massage bed/table?
The massage mostly starts with the use of a massage bed but after a short while it is continued on a futon mat on the floor.
Do you employ massage staff?
Alegraluz doesn’t employ massage therapists anywhere in the world. We encourage therapists to receive our training and to open their own rooms in their preferred location. We have the services of very skilled people to assist them is making a success of their own businesses.
Why does a Tantric Massage take such a long time? More than two hours! Almost three hours?
A Tantric Massage deals with the life force flow in clients. Most people are not aware of it. Many can’t find it. Others are controlled by it. The Tantric Massage Therapist assists the client to make awareness contact with their own life force. This process requires time.
What is a Tantric Massage for couples?
Each partner receives a Tantric Massage for two hours and afterwards they are brought together for one hour to learn some basic strokes on each other as well as to practice maithuna, a beautiful Tantra ritual.
Can people who aren’t Hindus really teach Tantra?
Yes. Tantra and Hinduism share a lot. Tantra doesn’t belong to Hinduism at all. If one assumes that Tantra is the exclusive domain of Hinduism then the motor car industry should be exclusively for the Christian community.
Alegraluz Training F.A.Q
What is Alegraluz Tantra?
Tantra is packaged by Alegraluz as a self development course for both men and women. It is a special road for people who want to discover who they really are, free from impressions of the past and the future. If you cant tell your partner about enquiring about Tantra, then perhaps you are not ready.
How exactly do you work with qualified Tantra Massage Therapists who have their existing practices.
We start with a general discussion about our conditions (that we do not do happy endings, that we do not sell sex and that the massage lasts a minimum of three hours). Therapists can then be invited to feature on the Alegraluz website. An Alegraluz web mail account is then created for the therapist and we start sending client enquiries. We ask a referral fee of the fee that the therapist charges.
I am interested in a session with you but I would like to receive some training during the 5 hours in Tantric massage. Can you incorporate that?
Tantra has as aim the personal enlightenment of people. This is a very scary concept as we get to face on greatness. To dabble or play with Tantra is not advised. Many people get stuck in bliss and it represents the same symptoms as burn-out or bore-out. Our own training in Tantric Massage took many years and in some parts of India the training lasts up to 20 years. We at Alegraluz Tantra International have a training programme that lasts a minimum of four weeks. We suggest you try the various other Tantra training providers in your area.
Who can attend a workshop, or take an Alegraluz Training Course?
Alegraluz International Training is open to all. Men, Women and Couples. Including same sex couples.
What does it take to become a Professional Alegraluz Tantric Massage Therapist?
To be registered with Alegraluz International you have to register as a student, you have to do a seven day workshop with us, you have to do a one week Professional Tantric Massage skills course, you have to do a one week anatomy and massage course, you have to do a one week business course and sit for the exam, hand in case studies and a thesis. Some parts can be shortened if you are qualified in massage and currently running your own massage business.
How do you calculate the cost of a Tantric Massage and of a Professional Alegraluz Tantric Massage Training Course? The cost of a Tantric Massage is double the price of a one hour massage in an upmarket hotel in a city where you want to work. Because a Tantric Massage lasts a minimum of two hours it is therefore doubled again. The cost of a Professional Alegraluz Tantric Massage Training Course is calculated as to 20 Tantric Massages in your area.
Why do you mention: "Previous experience in Tantra required", on the 7 and 14 Day Workshops?
Alegraluz International Training is open to all adults. Previous experience indicate to us that you have learned some proper breathing techniques and that you are comfortable in using your mind for what it is meant for and not to rule your life. However without previous experience you are still welcome to attend a workshop. In the first instance you can attend the first 2 days of a 7 or 14 day Workshop. Then on completion of these 2 days we reserve the right to decide if you can carry on or not. This preserves the integrity of the course for both you, and the other participants and allows you to really evaluate if you are ready for Tantra. In the event that you can not complete a full 7 day course, you will have completed a 2 day course, at which point you will have gained a better insight on how to move forward. In addition you will now have "experience of Tantra" and will have learned where you stand in Tantra.
Who attends Alegraluz Tantra Workshops?
Alegraluz International Training is open to all, men woman and couples. Including same sex couples. Our courses are attended by many beautiful people.
How many hours of workshop time is there in a workshop?
The 7 day workshop lasts around 85 hours.
What is the Alegraluz stand about male ejaculations?
We do not do ejaculations, happy endings or hands relief. Happy (sad) endings are a waste of time, money and energy. We do want the client to be orgasmic, multi-orgasmic that is. We do want male clients to have as many orgasms as their female partners. Orgasm is not linked to ejaculation. With ejaculation the client is back on their old paths, we want them to experience a guilt free, invigorating experience that will last the rest of their lives.
What can I expect from working for Alegraluz?
We do not employ anyone and teaching assignments are up to the individual to organise. We do not make promises of wealth and prosperity within the Tantra industry, except to say that we have more work than we can possibly handle. We are able to forward many client enquiries from many parts of the world, leads that are generated through our website. Once you have an interest to be part of the Alegraluz Tantra International, then we suggest that you take your time, ask many questions and perhaps start training with us in Spain. We do not want anyone to depend on us for their income within the Tantra industry. We want students to open their own centres, something we train them for. We do have a professional business attitude within Alegraluz Tantra International and the goal is to train students to be fully equipped to do financially well, within a short time of completing their studies.
Why can we not ejaculate?
We prefer to package the life force energy for men, charge it with sexual energy and ask the client to go and live the moment in deep love and respect for themselves and others. By not wanting clients to ejaculate we have a window of opportunity to start the road on being multi-orgasmic.
When do you have open sessions in Marbella?
Open sessions in Marbella normally take place on a Thursday evening. The frequency of these open sessions is very seasonal as it depends on requests for attending them. The best is to phone Martin to make an appointment to attend.
Are you in all the locations as listed on your website?
Alegraluz trained therapists or associate therapists visit most of the locations mentioned on our website, only at times.
Are you in the personal development field?
Alegraluz Tantra and Tantric Massage Therapists see themselves as highly trained professionals in the personal re-discovery field. When we are born we have it all. Many aspects of our being get lost through learning and assuming roles. The essence of who we are can be taken on once again. This is the field that Alegraluz therapists find themselves in.
What is the difference between your workshops and your courses?
Alegraluz workshops are open to everyone and the energy level of the group is taken into account on the direction and level the workshop will take on. The only desired outcome of a workshop is the proper use of life force by the participants. The courses are for students and follow a prescribed curriculum with a focus on a set outcome within a predetermined time.
Do you teach or train people in Tantra? Do you do Tantra therapy?
For massages we prefer to use the terms clients and therapists. For workshops we use the terms participants and coaches. In professional Tantra courses we train students. The best title we prefer is to be “midwives” – assisting people in being born into a new life. We do not add anything to anybody, we assist people to get rid of what is NOT theirs. We assist people to find themselves and all of us are perfectly unique.
What is the basic language that you offer the workshops in?
The main language is English but we also offer German and Spanish translations if and when requested.
Is nudity a compulsory part of the workshop?
Nudity is not compulsory but preferred when one works with a naked participant during a massage.
We want an exclusive workshop. Do you do that? What happens in a private/exclusive workshop?
First of all we need to know if the workshop is for you only or for you and your partner. We do require a down payment of 2000 euro before we enter into any agreements, booking of flights etc. We do offer private workshops on 7 different levels. To be able to tell you which one is for you we do we needs lots of information from you. You can start by telling us about your need contacting us and any other relevant information.
How is Alegraluz different from other Tantra training organisations?
Alegraluz is the first Tantra Training Organisation that doesn’t focus on bliss as a goal. Alegraluz Tantra balances sexual restfulness and sexual alertness and therefore allowing the individual to have energy packaged to live their lives the way they require. Alegraluz doesn’t make any therapist dependent on the organisation and endeavours for the financial independence of qualified therapists in the shortest time possible. Alegraluz doesn’t police any therapist in the way they practice Tantra. Alegraluz doesn’t belong to or sit on the board of any so called “governing bodies” of Tantra. Alegraluz has more than five years experience in the Professional Tantric Massage field and is the first international Tantra and Tantric Massage Training organisation.
Alegraluz. Frequently Asked Questions
Why do men suffer so much from premature ejaculation?
We daily receive many emails from men asking for help with premature ejaculation. When we start asking them about their relationship with women, we hear that they experience a complete lack of intimacy with women. The life force is therefore deprived from circulating between men and women resulting in getting stuck in a focus point in the genitals.
Where do the Alegraluz holidays take place?
These holidays are mainly in Andalusia, Spain but the same formula can be duplicated in many parts of the world.
Do you follow any specific religion in Alegraluz Tantra?
Tantra forms part of many religions. It happens that some religious leaders question our use of Tantra without their religious coating. Alegraluz follows a free, open, natural and loose way of living a fulfilled life.
Can people who aren’t Hindus really teach Tantra?
Yes. Tantra and Hinduism share a lot but Tantra doesn’t belong to Hinduism at all. If one assumes that Tantra is the exclusive domain of Hinduism then the computer industry should be exclusively for the Christian community.
I’m pregnant. Can I do Tantra?
After the first three months it is usually not a problem. We suggest that you consult your doctor about it anyway.
I’m 50 years old. My sex life is almost non-existing. Can Tantra do anything for me?
YES! Tantra doesn’t exclude anyone of any age group.
I’m curious to know more about the way you work and how to get associated?
The way we work is quite simple. 1. We do NOT entertain the mind as our work thrives on so called dualities. 2. We do work with life force (the real you, the abundant you, the godliness in you and us) 3. We treat sexuality as a normal part of who we are. The best way to get associated is to do a workshop with us.
I have been suffering from erectile dysfunction and premature ejaculation. I need to know if these can be rectified after taking your workshop?
We do not promise the results as you have mentioned in your question. Erectile dysfunction and premature ejaculation have many nuances and interpretation to their meaning. When the client suffer from a physical or medical condition, it is not within our domain to assist at all. Please consult a medical doctor.
What we do promise is that most clients discover their divine self, they move into a restful/alert state about themselves and their sexuality and most of what they have complained before about doesn't exist any more. This is a spiritual course with very prominent skills to be learned.
The combination of the two depends on your interpretation of reality and being. We are delighted to say that most participants felt after the workshop that they were well on their road to full sexual expression according their own measure.
For more information on Alegraluz Tantra please call Martin on +34 617 77 92 37. You can also send us a message through the contact page of this website.