BLISS-OUT intervention NOW available!
At Alegraluz Tantra International we have embarked on a programme to assist sufferers of BLISS-OUT.
Bliss-out is defined as: Stress and fatigue in body and mind due to excessive energies related to great joy or euphoria, characterized by over-engagement in the seemingly impossible.
I am finding myself stuck in a cycle that I want out of. This same energy keeps coming up in my life and I am so frustrated with it. I feel I have tried to change it in many ways and it has not shifted. I am tired from fighting so hard to make it different and I am now feeling depleted and needy. I mean REALLY stuck, not just kinda. This cycle has been going on for about 1 and a half years and I am so done with it! Please help me!!!!
Madame Curie died of radiation poisoning, she died of her over-engagement.
Caring too much can hurt. Indulging too much can hurt. When “caregivers” focus on others without practicing authentic, ongoing self-care, then destructive “living the dream” behaviours can surface.
Blessed-out individuals tend to be characterised as "warm and empathetic" In addition, the nature of these people is such that their social relationships are largely one-sided.
Women in Tantra run a high risk of developing bliss-out, as women tend to give more in relationships with others, as pleasing and serving others is inherent in their nature.
Characteristics of people running a high risk of developing bliss-out include a difficulty in saying "no", a need to prove their newly discovered divine worth and a commitment to share their ecstatic being with everyone they come in close contact with.
Does this refer to you? Wanting to know it all? Wanting to experience more through sex? Wanting to go deeper? Wanting higher peaks, deeper depths, wanting to reach the bottom of profound things? Longing for something in return? AND at the same time you are looking for shortcuts, if not cutting corners. Is there a chronic grappling with a profound sense of vulnerability or uncertainty about your favourite state?
Have you given yourself away? "Damned if you do, damned if you don't." "Damned if you stay, damned if you leave." Are you rationalising everything in relation to the divine, the energy, the greatness? Are you driven by the openness, the vastness because of the absence of being controlled by the mind? Are you constantly in bliss?
WHAT BELIEFS CONTRIBUTE TO BLISS-OUT?
- I should be ``ecstatic'' all the time and should not experience problems like other people.
- Satisfaction in helping others is reward enough for me.
- My efforts will always be rewarded by the universe.
- Deep down many people would like to be like me.
- I can influence others profoundly through my efforts.
WHAT TO DO?
- getting proper and sufficient support; find someone trained in bliss intervention.
- confronting denial about what is really going on; what have you established the last year that will remain even when you walk away from it?
- indulge in natural things; have focused energy on planting a tree and be in a position to care for it.
- acquiring and applying skills for turning options into productive attitudes and actions.
The state of bliss is only a stepping stone towards a restful/alert state of being. Don’t miss out on life by getting stuck in bliss!
Start to live your life! It isn’t about yesterday or tomorrow. Life is now! The moment contains everything you need to live a life of abundance. The moment is simple, practical and real.
For the phoenix to rise from the ashes …. One must know the pain …. To transform the fire of bliss to a burning desire to live.
Practice safe bliss! Join our BLISS-OUT intervention programme!
For more information on Alegraluz Tantra please call Martin on +34 617 77 92 37. You can also send us a message through the contact page of this website.